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chapmandou
06-18-2006, 11:32 PM
We lost our brave, sweet Sammy on Tuesday, June 13... and so we find ourselves on this page... where instead of just visiting, we will remain. As some of you know, Sammy survived two adrenal surgeries, the first of which brought us to this forum over 2-1/2 years ago, desperate for advice and support. It was a harrowing experience, but Sammy was strong and pulled through his very difficult surgery and recovery. His humans only got through it because of the incredible support we received here, from this very special community, day and night.

Two and a half years later, we were dealt another blow when Sammy had to have a second adrenalectomy, as another tumor appeared in the remaining adrenal gland and started causing serious problems. Thankfully, this surgery was a breeze compared to the first, and our little survivor was running and playing again within a couple of weeks. In fact, Sammy was so resilient, even as an Addison's dog now, we were beginning to think he was invincible.

Last week, our boy started having symptoms that seemed like "old dog vestibular syndrome." Two trips to the hospital gave us hope that it would self-resolve in 24-72 hours. But this was not to be. Sammy got much worse and all his neurological symptoms were now thought to be caused by a brain tumor. He was walking uncontrollably in tight circles, bumping into things, having focal seizures one after the other, becoming more and more disoriented and rigid, unable to eat or drink or open his mouth even -- it might as well have been wired shut. Finally, after a long and often-times terrible night, I was frantically calling every vet in the area, begging them to come to the house and not make me put this suffering creature in the car to drive to a hospital and then carry him into a sterile room and onto a cold table to wait for someone to finally give him his rest. The internists we trusted most were nearly an hour away. I'd almost given up hope, when finally, with our hospital's help, we found a wonderful local vet and his assistant who would come right away.

Sammy had collapsed again from exhaustion before they arrived. He didn't even lift his head when they walked into the room. We sat next to him, petting him as he lay on the soft bedroom carpet, a fresh breeze coming through the wide-open windows. The quiet and peaceful sleep that he so deserved was finally at hand.

His daddy is taking this very, very hard, as I'd always known he would. Sam was his heart dog -- he had never had such a bond with any of his previous dogs, all of whom he adored. But Sam was special. He was my husband's best friend, no less. He was my 24/7 companion and my child. Seems like I've been taking care of him for so long that I don't know what to do with myself without worrying about how he's feeling, his meds, his labwork..... or just doing all of the little things that made up the daily routine of our lives together, all the little things he relied on and loved so much. It is very difficult to focus now. I can be looking at something and not be able to identify it, or someone will be telling me something and I haven't a clue what they're talking about.

I know, it will get better as the days pass, but for now it feels surreal around here, and the tears come so often when you least expect it.

Sammy's at peace now, but it will be a long time before we are. I keep hearing him getting up in the next room and instinctively turn to look for him.

It's so true -- "we hold them in our arms as long as we can and then we hold them in our hearts."
Carol & Lee & Sammy-in-our-hearts

mytil
06-19-2006, 11:32 AM
Oh Carol,

We am so very very sorry to hear you and your husband lost your dear little Sammy. :( :( Our heart truly aches with you and cannot help but cry.

I know there were a lot of ups and downs, and I do know Sammy had the best mom and dad who loved him very much. It is very hard when they do leave; a huge whole in everything you do. I know I felt like I had gone into shock.

Please take care of yourself and Lee ~ you both will be in our thoughts and prayers and we will always be here......

(((((Hugs)))))
Terry (always Clancy and Mytilda's mom)
and Marianee (forever Barkis' mom and Peg's new mom)

Darlene
06-19-2006, 01:54 PM
Carol,

I'm so sad to read that your Sammy is gone. I'm sitting here in tears as I type this. I too have come to this site in hopes of finding some help and understanding from others who have been down the same road since my Vinny was recently diagnosed with cushings.

We lost one of our dogs on June 5th after his battle with cancer. Bringing him in to die was one of the hardest things I've had to do as an adult. These wonderful creatures that we are blessed to have in our lives touch the deepest part of our hearts, and losing them is devastating. Theres no physical comfort that replaces the loss, only the knowledge that any suffering is over and getting them to that point was the best act of love you could do. Still hurts no matter how nice you make it sound.

My best to you both, and I'm so sorry for your loss,

Darlene

Corgi-walker
06-19-2006, 04:15 PM
No words can be spoken that well take your heart ache away :(

Take comfort that Sammy is well again and he couldn't of wished for a better mum and dad then he had in you ....Bless you both !

Sand, Amber, Holly and forever Lady's mum xx

Loraine
06-19-2006, 09:02 PM
Dear Carol and Lee, I know just how your hearts must be breaking right now. You fought a wonderful battle for and with Sammy. What a brave boy he has been. I am at work and in tears for you, and I have no doubt that Coco will meet up with Sammy at the Rainbow Bridge.

Hugs
Loraine (Coco's Mum forever, Zedley's new Mum)

SachiMom
06-19-2006, 09:16 PM
Dear Carol and Lee,
Words cannot come to me that I express how sorry I am about Sammy. I think that everyone here also thought that Sammy was invincible. He will stay in our hearts. And he will always be the Wonder Dog. When you are the best mom and dad possible, it only makes it hurt that much more. I wish I could give you a big hug in person, but the cyber (((((HUGS))))) will have to do.
Take care of yourselves ~ Mary Ann

NMalfam
06-20-2006, 07:08 PM
Carol and Lee,
I can feel all the love you have for Sammy coming through in your email. You gave Sammy such wonderful care and love. I am so sorry for your loss.
Nancy

zoesmom
06-20-2006, 08:17 PM
Hi Carol and Lee -

I'm so sorry to hear about Sammy. I've only come to know his story recently, as you posted help for others facing adrenal surgeries. Sammy gives them all hope. I know you're in misery right now, and it won't be going any time soon.

But . . . ahhh, the memories. They will always be with you and Lee. After putting down our last dog KC (the one before Zoe), I just needed and wanted to remember every detail about her (she had some pyschological issues - I call them the good, the bad, and the ugly - having been once abused and then spending far too long in a shelter.) So I sat down, not long after, and wrote out some lists. One for everything I loved about that dog, one for everything I disliked (can't say hated). . . all the funny and quirky things she did to amuse me each and every day. Now, when I go back and read the journal (six years later), I'm amazed at how many things I would have forgotten if I hadn't taken the time to write them down. You might try it - it's bittersweet and painful, but brings relief of sorts. And some day, you'll smile at what you've written.

My great-aunt wrote a book for her grandchildren in the 1950's - about growing up in the 1890's on a farm in central Illinois. In her book, she wrote poignantly about losing her dear childhood pet, Shep. I love what she wrote about the experience . . . "Papa buried him there - amid the red clover blooms - where, in spirit, he might still chase the bunnies of the field. My sisters and I cried ourselves to sleep in our pillows that night. It was many a long day before any of us could mention Shep’s name without weeping. Papa was especially heart-broken. He and Shep had been through so much together. And Shep had been so devoted to Papa. I think now of the several dogs we have owned and loved, and I wonder if it is heresy to hope that there just might be a familiar plumy tail or bobtail waving me a greeting when I finally reach the ‘Elysian Fields.’ " Sue and Zoe

T_Quinn
06-23-2006, 04:58 PM
Carol and Lee:

I'm very sorry to hear that Sammy died. One thing that we did when Danger died is we took all of the emails people sent us, and all of the cards, and the poems we wrote and put them in a big binder. We took all of her things and put them in a big box. It's nice to take the things out and look at them and remeber.

TQ

Niwibamom
06-24-2006, 11:42 AM
I am so sorry for your loss. It must be such a tug at your heartstrings. I do have to say that anyone who I have "met" on this board has an extraordinary love for their pups, and that's what it is all about. I hope you can take peace in knowing you were wonderful parents for Sammy.
~Melanie and Nikki