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LagottoLady
04-14-2006, 07:05 AM
Dear Boncuk,

3 years ago you came into my life...battered, bruised and hurting. You were so small, so wounded. The physical wounds would soon disappear but your emotional wounds were too deep, too severe to heal. It took you a year to have faith and trust in me. And finally, when your life started to look a bit brighter, the epilepsy struck...with such force and impact. That second year we fought a battle together to get the epilepsy under control, and finally we did. You could again sleep peacefully at night without the seizures taking over, leaving you unconscious and in spasms. We were entering our third year together and life seemed to be good. With me at your side, you felt safe and secure but always ready to jump in my arms as soon as you detected the slightest hint of "danger"... You would hold on to me so tightly, your front paws around my neck, your hind paws around my waist...your little face hiding in my neck...not able to look at anyone, too scared...too afraid. Marked forever by the hands of humans...or at least that is what they call themselves. Your eyes were always searching for mine, looking for courage, comfort, security...
But you had faith in me and together we could face the entire world, side by side..you and I.
You were happy in your own special way....

Two and half years had passed and another condition of yours had gotten worse, you trachea was now collapsed for 80% over the entire length and I could clearly see that this was affecting you. You couldn't run around as you used to do...could not longer jump over tree trunks...but still, we were happy, you would ride on my lap when you got too tired to walk. Your warm and soft body, curled up on my lap, the wind playing with your ears...your eyes looking at me....smiling... Yes, we were happy.

Then the Cushing's started to take it's toll from you. We both tried so very hard...all the vets tried so hard...but in the end, your tiny body couldn't take it anymore and I had to let you go. I didn't want to...because you needed me so much. Who would protect you...who would look after you... From the day you came into my life, we hadn't been separated once... I never went anywhere without you, you would panic when I was not there. So how could I let you go now?

But then I realised, that in your short life so much had happened. You were hit, beaten, kicked, had boiled water thrown over you. So much pain, hurt and fear was inflicted on you. And now one disease after another turning your life into a continuous and endless battle. And eventhough I tried so hard...you would never find real peace here. The things I wanted for you the most, peace, no more fear, no more hurt, no more battles...I could finally give you now.
And so I let you go. You were still so young, only 5...

My little guy, I hope that you now are running and playing and jumping again, no longer knowing fear or feeling pain. It hurts without you here...but I know that one day...you will jump into my arms again and that I will feel your kisses on my face again.

Be safe and happy Cukie...till we meet again.

Always,
Saskia.

mytil
04-14-2006, 11:20 AM
Dearest Saskia,

What an absolutely beautiful letter to your sweet Boncuk. Cukie was so very lucky you two came into each others' live ~ and made it wonderful; even with all of his troubles. I truly believe they know that. He is probably missing you as much and will continue to until you meet again. The bravery of this little guy (and you) during all this is a tribute to the love and compassion you shared in a very special way. Thank you so much for sharing your lives together with us. I read and kept re-reading your letter and am crying each time. What a beautiful soul (both of you).

He has a lot of good company at the Rainbow bridge and I know he will be taken good care of.

Please stay in touch with us ~ my heart breaks with you :( and my prayers and thoughts are with you.....

Always my best,
Terry (always Clancy and Mytilda's mom)

labblab
04-14-2006, 11:29 AM
Dear Saskia,

We all knew that Boncuk would become your angel from the Bridge, but after reading your tribute, I am now certain that you were his angel on earth. The strength and beauty of your bond just brings tears to my eyes. I know how much you miss him, what a hole is left behind. But the kind of love that you shared does not die. I am so very glad that the two of you joined our little "family" here. Although Boncuk's time with us was far too short, he will always be fondly remembered on this board. Whenever I see his sweet picture in the Gallery, I will smile and wish that I could give him a hug... And I hope that you will remain with us, as well, to let us know how you are doing. I hope that your pain will begin to ease, as your precious memories of Boncuk help you to heal.

You and Boncuk remain in my thoughts and heart,
Marianne (forever Barkis' and Peg's mom)

AudreyW
04-29-2006, 01:10 PM
Saskia,

What a wonderful memorial to Boncuk. He is so lucky to have found you. I know you will treasure your memories of Boncuk forever, but I'm so glad you have found Semke to share your life now -- you seem to have so much love to give. Take care,

Audrey

MarW
09-12-2007, 01:31 AM
what a beautiful letter to Boncuk, Saskia !
it brings tears to my eyes, it expresses só well the bond there is between the two of you :)
kind regards from
Marja